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Quitting for Your Life(Information from the QUITNET website) GETTING THROUGH THE FIRST FEW WEEKSWhy Quitting is HardQuitting is difficult for two major reasons: physical addictionpsychological addiction or "habit"Dependency on cigarettes is due to both of these factors. In fact they intertwine to make quitting much more difficult than just a bad habit or some other physical addictions. The combination of the two is what makes cigarettes one of the most addictive drugs used today. In order to quit smoking it is necessary to break both the "habit" and the nicotine addiction.Some people have more of a problem with one side of smoking than the other. It may be that you smoke more for the nicotine, or for the pleasure of holding a cigarette. It is important to think about why you smoke each time you have a cigarette. This will let you identify your triggers, things you do that always make you light up. Once you have identified your reasons for smoking and your triggers you can go about breaking them.Smoking is deeply ingrained in almost all smokers. Quitting takes time and effort; most smokers who quit on their own don't succeed for good until the seventh or eighth time (even though they may claim it was on their first try!). Don't get discouraged if something happens -- the key to quitting is not letting little setbacks become big failures in your mind. Remember that a slip is just a slip and it doesn't mean you can't stay quit! Triggers and CuesSmoking is a behavior that you learned over a very long period. Even if you have only been smoking for a few years you have probably smoked well over 20,000 cigarettes! Eventually, after smoking so many cigarettes, they become associated with other things you do: drinking coffee, talking on the phone, or driving in the car. These other events become triggers, events that have tight connections to the urge to smoke. By breaking or changing these connections you can manage your smoking. There are three basic ways to manage your triggers: Avoid the situation:If you smoke with your coffee then don't drink coffee; have water or cut down on the amount of coffee or caffeine that you drink.If you smoke in the car avoid unnecessary driving or have a soda or juice bottle to occupy your hands (there is also the steering wheel!). Change the situationDrink your coffee standing up and with your other hand. Try drinking it with a straw if that works.Sit in the nonsmoking section at the restaurant or café and avoid situations that will require you to be around with someone smoking. Substitute for the cigaretteKeep something in your free hand when you're on the phone: a pen, a small toy, a photo.Chew gum or hard candy, or try carrot sticks.Sucking on a straw can help. Managing Your TriggersBy keeping a record of your triggers and how you deal with them, you identify possible difficult situations before they occur, in fact, before you even quit! One way to monitor your smoking patterns before quitting is to use "Track Sheets" to keep track of your cigarettes. On your sheet, you should write down the situation you are in (just enough so you remember: phone, work, on break, public transportation, etc.), how badly you feel you need that cigarette (on a scale of 1 to 5), and check under the face that most closely approximates your mood. If you are going to be tapering your smoking before quitting you can use this information to eliminate low-need cigarettes. Look over your Track Sheets and write down your most important triggers: The 4 D’s (Tips to fight the Urge) Deep Breathing – inhaling and exhaling slowly helps you to relax Drink Water – drink plenty of water throughout the day, esp. during a craving Do Something Else – change activity (call a friend, go for a walk) Delay – the urge for a cigarette will pass if you hold on for a few minutes Withdrawal and Recovery Symptoms (Are different for everyone!)Understanding the changes your body undergoes when you are quitting is the first step towards dealing with them. We can group them into two categories:
Recovery Symptoms
Withdrawal Symptoms
Oops...Feelings of failure after slipping are so common that there is even a term for them: the Abstinence Violation Effect. This refers to the very powerful feelings of guilt, depression and failure that often come when a new ex-smoker slips and has a cigarette.
If you slip, remember: A slip is just a mistake, not a lifestyle change or a national referendum on your willpower. Think about what happened and how to prevent it from ever happening again.This is not, in any way, an excuse to smoke. Don't ever let yourself think that just one won't hurt -- it will. It will put you in the very uncomfortable situation we just discussed/covered. Relaxation ExerciseDeveloping new ways to relax and deal with stress is often critical to ensuring a permanent quit. Although ex-smokers often don't realize it, they are already quite familiar with the principle of 'relaxation through deep-breathing'. Smokers do it all the time, only not with clean air! 'Inhale- Hold- Exhale' is the same process that we now use to relax or meditate. 10 Steps to Relaxation1. Choose a time of day when you're comfortable with turning off the telephone/cellphone, TV, radio, etc. Eventually, you'll want to perform this exercise each morning and evening, but for now, just develop the habit of doing it daily. 2. Choose a chair that allows you to sit comfortably upright. Slouching actually increases tension in some parts of the body, and lying down may cause you to drift into sleep. Some people prefer to sit cross-legged on the floor; be sure that you're not in any physical discomfort if you do so. 3. Find a timer that you can set for at least five minutes; do so and keep it next to the chair. 4. Sit quietly erect with your hands in your lap. Your eyes may be opened or closed (whichever is more comfortable). Just let yourself sit for a few moments. 5. Slowly INHALE through your nose; HOLD for a second or two, and, as you EXHALE say, "Relax". 6. Try to focus on each part of your body, from top to bottom or randomly, as you tell yourself to relax. You may actually FEEL your muscles letting go. 7. Let your thoughts wander where they will. Any attempt by you to 'clear your mind' will likely cause tension. "Relax". You can bring yourself back to the moment at any time by simply focusing on your breath and the word, "Relax". 8. Let the timer worry about how long you've been relaxing. All you need to do is just breathe in and out and say, "Relax". 9. When your time is up, sit for another minute and check out how your body feels. The more you're aware of the good benefit of relaxing, the more motivation you'll have to continue doing it. 10. Remember that you can do this exercise any time you like. Five minutes each morning and night is a very good beginning, but relaxing for as little as one minute is preferable to not relaxing at all (and a 'quickie' is often crucial when in crisis). Do what you CAN do, and increase that when you can. What About Weight Gain?Some weight gain while quitting is normal, about 5-8 pounds. One of the effects of nicotine is to speed up your metabolism; essentially your body runs at a faster than normal speed, making you burn more calories. When you stop using nicotine, your metabolism slows down, and you will probably gain a few pounds. Also, nicotine affects both hunger, sense of smell and taste, and the digestive system. All of these factors make weight gain more likely, but are they are manageable. Your metabolism will increase overtime with proper nutrition and exercise. Most weight gain results from increased snacking. Not only does food seem more appealing due to your re-awakened sense of smell and taste, but it also provides an alternative to smoking. There is no reason to avoid snacking -- what has to go are the twinkies. Keep celery and carrot sticks or other low-calorie snacks around to help prevent splurging on junk food. They also provide a nice substitute for a cigarette.
It is estimated that you would have to gain 75 pounds to in order to equal the serious disease risks from smoking. The keys to controlling your weight are the same when you quit smoking as during any other time: exercise, eat healthy meals, and fruits and vegetables, and avoid fats and high calorie sweets. Most weight gain when quitting comes from snacking so eat several small meals instead of a large ones. This will curb the feeling of between-meal hunger. All of this said -- remember one thing: the surest way to make quitting difficult is to go on a diet at the same time. As all smokers know, a cigarette can help make you less hungry. This works strongly in reverse -- if you are hungry you are going to want a cigarette. Much as with other drugs, food deprivation leads to increased desire for and use of nicotine. Lab rats who are given access to nicotine and are then put on a "diet" will increase their consumption of the drug dramatically. People react in much the same way; however, we are able to plan ahead. In other words -- if you are concerned about weight gain, eat sensibly but don't overdo it. For more tips and education contact: Health Link The Wellness Center of Maine Coast Memorial Hospital, Ellsworth 667-2474 The Health Education Center Blue Hill Memorial Hospital, Blue Hill 374-2836 ext. 2131 Healthy Acadia Mount Desert Island Hospital, Bar Harbor 288-5081 ext. 319 Visit QUITNET atwww.quitnet.com/library/guides |